Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[mishka422]

I really wanted to say "does it really matter"

So why didn't you? What stops you from saying what is on your mind now?

Example? Recently XH made a comment to me in a roundabout sort of way regarding sex. Yeah, totally inappropriate, but it got my dander up. He told me I should 'go out and get some if I was feeling so lonely'. FWIW, I never told him I was lonely and I had only commented back to him that there were some things I was missing out on - nothing specific. My response? Something I never would have EVER said in a million years! 'My taste is apparently more discriminating than yours has become'.

Yeah, nasty of me huh? He just looked sheepishly at me and said he guessed I was making better choices than he had. HA!

You see, speaking your mind sometimes nets you some warm fuzzy feelings.