Going to the marriage therapist at 4pm today with wife who I know will try to push me for a decision at 90 days. Thanks tons for your advice! You're right -the 90 day deadline is her show. I cannot change what she is going to do only work on myself and stay on the Divorce Busting track and show her unconditional friendship.
If you believe in a Higher Power - please keep me in your thoughts at 4pm today central time U.S. and I'll update you all later. Thanks!
