Last couple of days have been relatively quiet. Tuesday WAW and I did some good "co-parenting" stuff with our energetic, strong willed S. Trying to get him to listen better and be a bit more responsible. Felt good to work as a team, and I think she felt that way too (but I am focused on me).
Yesterday some things came up again after work about the reality of this all when WAW brought it up. Not as outwardly angry as before, but talked of things like giving up on everything since she doesn't want to spend more $ on lawyers, wants to just leave, and basically upset that her plan is not going as she thought. I listened and validated. I did say that no matter what happens, I have and will continue to make changes including my behavior as well as issues with finances and the house she is bothered by.
She is still in the fog, still angry, but not as much so and I am seeing the reality of it all hitting her a bit more.
As she was leaving work this morning, I complimented her on her new skirt she was wearing, and yes gave her a little pat on the butt and said "nice." She responded by saying "I bet you do that to all the girls at work" which I laughed and said "yeah right." She then came over to me, pretended to be "me at work" like she joked and patted and pinched my butt!
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H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
