he was back, i think

[Sanderika]

(((((mdoodles)))))

I am so sorry you are dealing with this.

Like I said on your other thread, do not back down.

Stay strong girlfriend. You need to regain some control over this. Letting her get away with it will only empower her to keep doing things like this to you or worse.

The pregnant thing....let it go. I am imagining she is using it as a scare tactic for you and a desperate attempt to keep your H.

I pray she isn't. In reality though, if she is it won't change today. Your H is with her right now pregnant or not. I am sorry to say that. It is a fact.

It's a hard lesson to swallow, as the LBS we need to face the facts. I understand this is very hard to do, boy do I ever.....

Your H is talking out his a$$ for insuating if you go forward with the charges you and little son will never see him again. Remember, you don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. This is crap talk. H is trying to scare you into conforming. Don't. If H really wants to be this way, let him....who's he really hurting here????? You??? Way too late for that. Little son??? No way, he won't be able to follow through cause it's all crap talk.

I agree with the others stop taking H calls until the dust settles on this. I think by stopping to take his calls H will realize he isn't going to win this one. IMO H could have controlled his OW and her harrassing behaviors instead he chose to bury his head in the sand.....thus, H will have to suffer the consequences right along side of his "P-B" OW.

(((((mdoodles)))))

We are all here for you, lean on us.....

Sanderika