I guess something else that has been on my mind is that I had to log into our joint account today to check whether our final credit card payment had gone. I saw that his portion of the money from the sale of the house has taken a considerable hit (my portion is separate now and safe). He has been paying off credit cards all over the place and has obviously been taking out a lot of credit this year. I know I have to not get involved and it is no longer our money but it is hard not to feel some kind of disappointment at it being drained away.
I have no reason to look again so I won't but still, I guess I can only control me and I know that my portion is going to be looked after very wisely. It is the future after all.
