That is funny b/c my LL's are Words of Affirmation followed very closeley by Physical Touch. I suspect most men have those as their primary LL's.
That book was a quick read, but oh so helpful.
I would let your H initiate any affection/touching and respond accordingly - just don't go overboard with it. At the same time, you don't want him to feel "rejected.". I know its a fine line, but you can walk it.
