Remember you need to develop a duck’s back. Recognise that he’s being insensitive and move on, try not to obsess (that might be just me). Insensitivity may be his personality – you know best was he like that before? I think that the WAS doesn’t always want to hear about bad things that are happening to us – it makes them feel guilty.
And does it really matter what he says (he probably didn’t consider his words before he spoke), your health is more important. Keep well.