I`m learning from you re keeping home nice too. Don`t want to be obsessively cleaning, like I did in the past, to the detriment of the the inhabitants` happiness. And yes, I`m insisting now on having me all dolled up first, house comes second, kids can get away with being dirty! LOL! As a GF siad to me before her MIL (yes, MIL!) advised her that her H wouldn`t notice if the kitchen floor was clean but sure would notice HER when he comes in the door from work!
I heard that YEARS ago! Do you think I listened? And guess who`s been dressing like a sexy minx all these years and guess who`s been frumpy mummy. But my kitchen floor is spotless....
