A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

ok, read all of Love Languages and about 60% of DR.

Kidlet's love language is Quality Time.

Oddly enough, I am less sure about Hubby's and mine. Mine is either Quality Time or Physical Touch, leaning toward Quality Time. My biggest gripe about the M was the he would never spend time with me, and my biggest hurt was that he was spending it with someone else. It's the touch I'm craving at present, but I think overall, QT may be more important.

As for him... I think it's Words of Affirmation, but it might be Physical Touch, instead. At the moment, he's responding very well to verbal praise and appreciation and touches might be a bit risky. However, he has touched me on several occasions, so it's possible that's what he really wants. Things like complimenting my blouse, then fingering the material, complimenting my hair, then touching it, etc. I've also gotten some good hugs recently and even one really surprising kiss on the top of the head when I was upset about something.