he told me he will never be seen again, never see his son again because of this. he will dissapear.
He is being a Drama King!
I heard the same exact thing from my W when her mother found out about her A because I had confided in W's brother what was going on (my mistake). She added the most beautiful phrase - "I'm going to F myself up in the bars and then live on the streets."
I am more concerned about you and your son's safety with a very irrational woman right now. I would have some pepper spray just in case.