Stuck,to answer your question.I meant more that she can have sex with someone and not get emotionally attached.The last hour has been a killer.I texted w about car and it turned into a 1 hour conversation and not a good one.Well maybe a tiny part.I told her I would do the brakes and then she said are we going to discuss divorce this weekend.I tried to break away from that but she started saying a bunch of stuff her lawyer told her of what she is entitled to.I told her my lawyer said just the opposite.Well this went on for about 20 minutes.I kept my cool the best I could and said I don't want to fight about it,that I wanted whats best for both of us.She said she is adament about not staying married.period.and that she has no intention of getting married again.I told her we could just take some time.She said she doesn't need any more time.Then things cooled down a bit.She said would I do the legal separation.After 1 year this could be converted into a divorce.I said fine.Figured that could buy more time.Maybe at the end she'll go for divorce anyway.But a year is a year.Anyway then I asked her whose vacation house she is taking the kids to.She said the guy she is seeing now.Not the same one from a couple months ago.I bit my tongue.She said he is not going to be there.I believe her about that because she said it is detrimental to the kids to introduce them at this stage.But right now it is killing me.We left off with a goodnight and she said she'll have sep. agreement drawn up.Now I feel like telling her to take the car to the mechanic and pay triple what I would've charged her for the brakes.I am so pissed right now.I kept my cool though and got out of the divorce for now.Now what would my next step be?
