After hearing about you from my friend K4D, I have been spending some time going over your threads. I know you are hurting tonight....but, I want to encourage you that this is NOT the end. As K4D said, I was in your shoes at one time...with no hope....except that I knew that God was going to be with me no matter what. That became my strength....and eventually my W returned to the marriage. I will only tell you that your marriage can once again be amazing beyond belief. It might be useful if you spend a few hours (sorry it is a long bunch of threads) reading through my sitch as you will see it change from hopeless to an amazing restoration....that is still getting better every day! All of the glory goes to God...my only role was to get out of the way and let God handle the tough stuff.
BTW, I also want to thank you for your service to the NY community! In that I have been a resident of CT for 7 years, a frequent visitor to NYC, with a daughter who attended college at NYU, I have personally benefited from the service of you and your colleagues. As Shawn Hannity says, "You're a great American, Orich!"
Although I am not on the boards very often these days, I will try to check in on you from time to time!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today