He just panicking Im sure. You are in this position because of HIS actions, maybe he should have done YOU a favor and not been a man-slut! It is certainly not your fault that he had to go screwing around and brought this dangerous woman into your and your sons life, TWICE! Dont ever let him try to turn it around on you.

Why would HE disappear because of what shes done? It seems like a fairly minor issue to go on the lam for. I think that hes just panicking and saying the first stupid thing that comes to his mind.

Congratulations doodles, on being brave enough to stand up for yourself and your child and not letting him talk you out of it so that this abuse can continue.

We are all hoping for the best for you and your family.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...