Update: Wife talked to me this morning prior to meeting with her A and asked me about a Separation. I replied that I would consider anything other than D.

Met with attorney and sent me this email:

Subject: Collaborative Divorce

"I would like for us to talk about this. It seems to be the least expensive and there are financial advisors, psychologist, better for the kids, etc. I strongly encourage you to just take a look at it."


Planning to tell her that I am not interested in a divorce but when I have some time I will do some reading on it.

Any thoughts on the best way to handle this?

Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms