I'm sorry she has made this decision. And I guess at this point you have no choice but to accept it. But that doesn't mean it really is over. She has shown some indecision. This is not necessarily the last time she will change her mind. I think what Smiley's Person says is true, you have to accept that you are already dead, and go from there. Start working on the mediation, don't just cave in to her demands, get the best deal you can for yourself, and then wait and see what happens. There are a lot of twists and turns in the road, and plenty of WASs find out the single life isn't really what they wanted. But you have to give it time.
