W is having Affair -- may leave soon -- thread 2

[MrBond]

Whoa I don't think I have to mention how many times you backslid.

First things first. Get your self-respect back. She's sleeping with another man. I would say you need to get her out ASAP. Lay a boundary. She won't love what she doesn't respect and right now with her rubbing your nose in her A shows that she doesn't respect you at all.

Stop pursuing. Stop sounding needy.

If it was me, I would have nicely packed her stuff out and let her stay with the OM. She doesn't want to be with you, so why wait?

Get your confidence back. Detach and get out and do things for you. When she emails you, don't even acknowledge them.

You can still salvage this.