She seems to be spending money like crazy down there. Our joint checking account is about to bounce. I don't get it. I told her I would make sure she had enough to provide for the kids (even though her parents have told her they'll pay for everything she needs), but she needed to let me know how much she needed. Instead, she's just buying lots and lots of stuff and not telling me. I have no way of putting more money in the account for at least three weeks. What do I do if she bounces the account?

For someone who claims to be divorcing me partly over my excessive spending, she's acting rather unusually. I actually trust her with money, so I doubt she's being frivolous (as I often was), but its disturbing nonetheless.

Any helpful advice out there?


Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053