Ok, so we are all good, yes? Good for you on understanding what he needs and what you need. And yes, only make changes that you can do for life.
He has made it clear he needs time so I know you are going to give it to him. He really is all muddled up inside. He needs to figure it out. THe more room you give him to do that, the better.
I just want you to be prepared for the possibility that he may change what he says he needs. He knows he is not happy, unsettled and cant quite figure out why. Dont get discouraged if he does. Thats why it is so important that you keep the focus on you and your son.
