Well, not sure I should be here....I will be D in another month. Ironically, my divorce date is set for 9/11. My H wants to get the D and then start over.
I just have been having a very hard time with this concept. Why get a D at all without any trial? And ok.....lets just let the argument rest, but how do I psychologically stop myself from feeling bad, not resenting him and moving forward.
This week, I am having trouble sleeping. I am working 9 - 10 hr days and still not sleeping well. I have not had trouble with sleep since that first 3 weeks after he first gave me the papers.
