Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Question for those who have dealt with a spouse who is cheating.

How do you face your spouse everyday? Now that I know H and OW have had some form of sexual intimacy (phone sex/cyber sex) I can barely stand to look at him. It makes me sick to my stomach. H continues to lie about the affair which is just another slap in the face.

I want to kick him out of our bedroom but don't think it's the right thing to do in continuing with DBing.

What do you do when your spouse is all nice, hugs and kisses, like nothing has happened? H pretends there's nothing going on. I can't pretend. My emotions range between intense anger to unimaginable hurt.