Originally Posted By: GoBison
I really don't know what I should do at this point.
Always do your best. Make a choice with all the information you know and you will have no regrets.

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I am still thinking going dark as she is still extremely upset and I know trying to talk to her will just lead to R talks.
It sounds like you know what to do.


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And she really wants nothing to do with me.
If you love something, set it free. If this is what she wants, why stand in her way.....

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She is gone this weekend and I will be gone for 10 days the next weekend. When I get back is when she wants to file. That is about 3 weeks.
Good time to work on you. What books do you plan on reading? What GAL will you do? What 180's will you do for YOU?

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I can contest the divorce on no counseling until the end of the year if I choose. Going to ponder that for now and wait those 3 weeks.


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Right now I really don't think I have any other choice than to go dark.
You have lots of choices. What is the best choice for you? It sounds like going dark is.

Here is a question to ask yourself:

Is it better to go dark and have her wondering about you, or to have you in her space and reminding her that she wants out?



Making permanent changes to YOU is what is important right now. Keep projecting happy, confident, strong, cool, empathetic...

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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