DO NOT CUT YOUR HAIR. Just get it shaped up a bit but NOTHING drastic. You are very different right now and I know you know that. A pregnant body makes it all nutty, even your hair. Do something simple and not too drastic.....after baby girl two is here and you think about it, THEN get it cut something fun and sexy. I've known too many friends who did the hair cut during the pregnancy, only to ask What was I thinking? Well you weren't because you had baby brain! LOL!!

I think you are doing fine and just really need to let him stew in his own juices. I don't think he really wants this divorce he's just having a nutty. Not sure that I would call it MLC.....my H confused me too. I went back and forth with MLC and WAS.....he had traits of both....which in the end, leads me to think he just had a nutty and not an MLC.

You're doing great.


M-34/H-35/S-4
Bomb-11-08
OW confirmed 12-08-OW ends 6-09
D finalized 4-10
Stronger=Happy