Well, I think the lack of contact is a bad idea for you for now. You are def. out of sight, out of mind.
Time to get back in her head and maybe her heart.
I told my H I would protest the D on the grounds we never sought professional help. He was mad at the time and at some points was begging me to just sign....he never did get the papers drawn up. But we both had (have) lawyers. Neither of us have talked to our lawyers in awhile and things APPEAR to be on the mend.
I think it's time for a different tact....going dark is not working.
What does your gut say right now that you should be doing?
