You are right breakaway. I know that you are right but I have such a hard time just making the right choice.
I don't know if it's because I am scared of being alone, or that I don't think that I can make it on my own, or that I really think that he can be the man I married again and want to give him that chance.
Do I give myself a time limit? On such and such day if things have not changed for the better and have remained changed then I am leaving? I don't kow if I can make it on my own and support my girls. The dads of my girls are no help so it would just be me that would be dealing with it. Right now at my present job (which I love and it is flexible for kids), I could not make it. I would have to quit and find something else and the job market around here stinks.
I don't know what to do. I know that he has to change though.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
