I know how you feel about seeing your names at the top of the papers and it says vs. between you. Kinda reminds you of a caged fight on some wrestling show. LOL

Take a minute a breath. Remind yourself that you are doing this for your son and that your H really isn't helping out finacially like he should be. You are ABSOLUTELY correct in filing the papers to get support. Do your best not to waiver from it. It is a scary process but in the end you'll be able to feel 'free' knowing that you have tried your best to secure finaces for your son.

Keeping reminding yourself that you would not be in this situation if he had not put you there in the first place.

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09