What is the show -stopper for her coming during the summer to see the kids? What can't be worked around right now except you at work? Ask her if you can bring the kids by her place whenever you have some free time.

Quote:
I know this is your home, and while I understand that you are entitled to come over. Could you tell me the what time you are planning to arrive. That way I can make sure your Ds are here.


I understand you want to see the girls. I want to make sure they are all home when you come by. Their schedules are busy in and out of the house. I would not want you to waste your time and stop by if we are not home. Here are some times the girls will be home together __________. If that doesn't work let me know when you are free and I can get them by to see you.

Can you take them to have lunch/movie/dinner with her?
Give your wife the girls schedules.
Don't tell her what she is entitled to.

Handle it.
Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.