Not sure on the night waking. I still do think that the visit schedule is alot for a one year old! All weekend with H? Especially when he doesn't see her inbetween visits? From everything I have read and understand court guidelines don't even advocate a child going overnight until they are at least 2. This may be too much for her.
Will be interesting to see what happens when your D is final. I bet OW will definately be turning up the M heat. Just a matter of time before he runs again.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!