Wifey - no kidding....I wanted to reach through the phone line and rip out his heart. But, I stayed calm and non-confrontational. I just tried to suggest maybe researching it a little more...yah, right! Him? Research? That would require reading.
I keep notes on absolutely EVERYTHING. Just in case. I still keep notes on his visitation pattern even though we have an established custody order. But, you never know what kinda crap he's gonna try.
I wondered how long OW was going to put up with him and having to buy him...but it's been almost 2 years. So, I guess the answer to that would be....Until he marries her. She'll at least keep it up until then. Now that we are going to be divorced in the next week or so....I bet she is going to turn up the heat. And, honestly, I don't believe H really WANTS to marry her...but, he's going to have to if he wants to keep his toys. Although, who's to say that once they are married she doesn't make him sell his toys because they need the money. I'd laugh my a$$ off. And, I have a feeling they ARE going to need the money because I called Child Support Services and they recieved my application. They are just now processing it. It may take another 8 weeks....but, it's coming. If I only had a polaroid of the looks on their faces when they get the letter from the DA. But, even though I know it is going to stir up the drama again and his anger and rage...it is what needs to be done for Kendall. I can't keep on like this...struggling to feed us and pay the bills, just because he doesn't want to lose any money. It's for his daughter and he doesn't even care....wait, he might care (slightly)...I dont think he even realizes it or thinks about it that way.
As far as BIL is concerned....he loves K too much to let H get away with anything, much less OW.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him