Yesterday she text me to see if she could come by today late in the day to see all the kids.
I agree.
This morning she text and says she'll be over around 12. D 6 and me won't be home.
I texted her back that 4 pm is better.
She replies she would be over sooner.
I text back that she requested to visit late in day and that is what is acceptable to me.
She replies that with Unless u have a court order saying what time I'm allowed in my house you cannot stop me.
I did not reply.
You did not communicate with her. She wanted to see all the kids. You should have just told her what time all the kids would be home. You just gave a command in her eyes, "4 pm is better."
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She calls me an hour later and says a bunch of bs that eluded to I'm in denial about our sitch.
Did she come out and say you are in denial? Sounds like both of you are mind readers (assume what the other is thinking) that's a by-product of poor communicating.
What exactly are your boundaries?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
