Yesterday she text me to see if she could come by today late in the day to see all the kids.

I agree.

This morning she text and says she'll be over around 12. D 6 and me won't be home.

I texted her back that 4 pm is better.

She replies she would be over sooner.

I text back that she requested to visit late in day and that is what is acceptable to me.

She replies that with Unless u have a court order saying what time I'm allowed in my house you cannot stop me.

I did not reply.

She calls me an hour later and says a bunch of bs that eluded to I'm in denial about our sitch. I told her that I have been very accomodating to her with all her request. I've been taking care of our children and everything else. When she talks about 50/50 and does not help me out, I have only request a handful of things from her such as helping with the kids and sharing her schedule so we can plan out the days she can visit. She just turns it around and throws it back at me like it my fault.

I suggest that we can approach this civilly and she replies at this point no we can't and asked me for our last five years tax returns. Which I replied I'll get you copies later. She replied she would just take them and make copies today. I removed them from our home.

She is heading over to the house, nothing I can do.

I cannot put up with this any more. I"m ready to file.

I need suggestion and help from anyone right now.

What is going on I set a couple little boundries and she freaks out.


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Seperated 3/2009
. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2