orangedog is right. H needs to step up to the mark. This is not right any way you look at it.
I did for my W! I had the BIGGEST wake up call when I got a call from the maintenance court saying my W was there in tears. She was a WAW with no money. Ahhhh - damn did THAT hurt me! And I felt great helping her - just didn't like the way she did it. I was expecting a talk to discuss.
But I understand why she did it this way - and I forgave her.
