im having alot of trouble with the letters going back and forth with our attorneys. granted, we certainly havent gotten anywhere near a settlement, but im so not interested in a separation/divorce.

i do not like seeing our names vs. eachother.

i guess im lucky im in ny, its a fault state so i can argue just about anything since he has no grounds on me.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09