separation doesn't mean the marriage is past saving. The whole point of DBing is that you can do it on your own even if the other person isn't presently willing to work on things. I've been separated for two years now and I'm just starting to work on it. Dia
Dear dia - see you have some gems hidden inside. Keep posting!
Originally Posted By: Wont give up
you're spouses friends want her to stop hurting, not necessarily what's good for the two of you.
Originally Posted By: sgctxok
Don't worry about the mistakes you made DBing...just do better next time. Like most everything else....it's what becomes your new habits that are important. Just practice.
Can we all have an Amen on the above!
Arwen, the simple fact that your other half is e-mailing you with all this stuff is that I feel she want's attention!. Don't fall into the trap of playing her games.
Work on yourself. Read through some of the other threads and know that we're all here for you.
Deep breaths. Don't try to think through "things" every moment of the day. Share you're feelings here first before you do something that you may regret doing "in the heat of the moment".
