Again - you are deflecting back to what 25 did. And you are not addressing what was posted to you. 25 also listed some valid reasons as to why she "shopped" for a group. There are many valid reasons to "shop" for a support group, support meeting or C. Yours just seem to be a bit judgemental and that does seem to be a pattern of yours. Because somebody is not like you it doesnt mean you cant learn from each other.
An ex-con made a mistake, paid the price and now is trying to change their lives. One day you will be an ex-husband. Does that mean you are unworthy of being in a group for CURRENT husbands because somehow they are better than you? No.
You just dont seem to give anything a chance that is not firmly rooted in your comfort zone or how you think things *should* be.
This isnt about 25, its about you. Stop comparing your patterns and actions to others, this is about YOU.
