So this process is just weird. My w. called me yesterday. I could tell she is having doubts. She told me she 100% wants to get the divorce and sell the house. But I think she is hoping to go through that and then try to re-build our relationship. Strange right? Anyway, she suggested we go to counseling. She called it "divorce counseling" since she didn't want to promise me anything. She wants me to find a counselor. How do identify a db friendly counselor? How do i pick the right counselor?
Agree to c. Interview them and ask them questions. Are they pro-marriage? I think Michelle has some information about it.
If she is leaving the C up to you then I would call several and feel them out.
Or, is she going to select the C and expect you to settle for whomever?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
