So this process is just weird. My w. called me yesterday. I could tell she is having doubts. She told me she 100% wants to get the divorce and sell the house. But I think she is hoping to go through that and then try to re-build our relationship. Strange right? Anyway, she suggested we go to counseling. She called it "divorce counseling" since she didn't want to promise me anything. She wants me to find a counselor. How do identify a db friendly counselor? How do i pick the right counselor?