Okay, Kevin - I managed to get caught up with the many pages of posts. I will keep it simple and just put some bullets that are easy to follow:
* You are happy with the way things are going except that your wife isn't with you.
* You stopped AA and C that YOU NEED (in addition to your spiritual growth)
* You are losing the benefits of self-reflection and growth that both would gain you
* Without the self-reflection and growth your wife will not give you a chance
* You are guaranteeing yourself a D and may as well file yourself, right now
* If you don't want a D you will find an AA meeting and C you are more comfortable with
* You will understand that you can anticipate the 2x4's because you know you are doing something wrong
* You can fight FOR your marriage by doing the hard work and taking it like a man
* Stop fighting everyone and insisting on doing things your way
* Your way got you where you are and I want better for you
I really want better for you!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.