Okay, Kevin - I managed to get caught up with the many pages of posts. I will keep it simple and just put some bullets that are easy to follow:

* You are happy with the way things are going except that your wife isn't with you.

* You stopped AA and C that YOU NEED (in addition to your spiritual growth)

* You are losing the benefits of self-reflection and growth that both would gain you

* Without the self-reflection and growth your wife will not give you a chance

* You are guaranteeing yourself a D and may as well file yourself, right now

* If you don't want a D you will find an AA meeting and C you are more comfortable with

* You will understand that you can anticipate the 2x4's because you know you are doing something wrong

* You can fight FOR your marriage by doing the hard work and taking it like a man

* Stop fighting everyone and insisting on doing things your way

* Your way got you where you are and I want better for you

I really want better for you!


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.