But, I am not sure it is in your best interests to say that you are not sure what other changes he wants from you as if you are a job applicant or a shopping list.
What she is saying is, now that he has made his list of things that he doesn't like...
YOU have to be true to you....You can't go changing things just because he whimpers...
If i'm thinkin straight here, and correct me if I'm not, there were TWO people involved in this marriage....
She is saying that the things that you can do and YOU realize that you were wrong in.....change them.
But A....YOU are too high a price to pay for this relationship.