And, if he has any other possessions at all of hers, he could box all of them together and say he came across these and thought she would want them. He could even pass it through the L's.

I would absolutely not say your son read them!!! That would rub me the wrong way and I am the LBS. Those letters were for your private eyes then, and that is true now.

No expectations, no disappointments.

Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.