Sorry to hear about your daughter's problems. I will keep her in my prayers.
I'm not dismissing what you and Sandi are warning me about - I will keep my eyes open. I know you're just trying to protect me. It's hard because I'm just giving you quick synposis of conversations.
But at this point, he is going out of his way to talk to me and tell me everything. This morning I asked him if he thought he'd be late again tonight and he said to me I can't think why I would. So I'm just going to take it one day at a time. I'll be looking for him to not be visiting the hospital as much and following through on his declaration not to get pulled into this anymore.
I really feel like if I demand that he have no more contact with either of them I'm going to look like a heartless B**** and it will just go downhill from there. In his mind, he still thinks he was and is just being a supportive friend, there was nothing going on between the two of them - he's even made that statement to her H.
He's been very responsive to me and Monday night he kept thanking me and apologizing to me for the situation. He even said to me thank you for not being crazy. He's only expressed anger at himself for getting in the middle of this situation.
I'm going to stop now because I know this is probably sounding like me trying to justify things. I just have to go with my gut and my heart on this one - keeping my eyes wide open.
Puppy - I'll miss your counsel! Sandi - I hope you'll still be available! Thanks to both of you!
