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Good to "see" you again. I'd disagree that the words would hit her...or if they did that you'd ever know. Showing old love letters is a classic DB101 no no. It doesn't acheive what you hope it would. But if you don't hope for it to do anything...then you really have nothing to lose. I'm just saying that I wouldn't bother...that was another life to her, kind of like finding love letters sent to an old boyfriend from high school. Talking about "forever" is pretty much par for any committed relationship.


You're right - Mules may never know what those letters will mean to her. But I would bet it all that they WILL hit her. You are discounting her capacity to remember, feel, possibly regret, to wonder what happened, to reflect on moments that SHE sees as turning points. WAW...are people, too. There. I said it.

I don't recommend this to Mules as a way to win her back. Not at all. But it is a way to reach out to the woman he has 25 years of history with. Those letters are part of that history and I think he should share them with her - one human being to another.

Cheers ~~~


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



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