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I am in a lot of pain right now as this tearing apart has been so slow and I just feel left over and over again when he comes here and takes more things and leaves. He will not be coming tomorrow because I was a wreck tonight when he left. I have asked him so many times to not take things or linger in the house, that he can schedule a time. Tonight, I just couldn't handle it. And with the kids here, I didn't want to yell or cause a scene.


Change the locks. Ask someone to help you with this if needed.

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Big decisions and where will live is top of the list. I am pretty clear, just nervous about being a bit further from my parents and maybe isolated. But, it would be a fresh start.


Your parents will still see you and be in touch. Isolated - where your moving doesn't have roads, phone service, internet, sidewalks, schools, churches, restaurants, post office, hair salons or people?

You will handle it. Sometimes it was the only way I could keep going was to say it to myself.

Cheers
Coach


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.