And, as far as the support question, much like in job hunt situations, give her a reasonable high to low range. Make sure the low is really where you are comfortable. The best way to diffuse this is to put something out there. If you are willing to take less, what is it already?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
