Hi Virginia!

Nah, I'm not going to call her back smile I'm also going to tell H I do NOT want to see her at the hospital when I have this baby (I have a feeling she's stepping up the phone calls because she doesn't want to be left out when the baby is born).

I figure the mother issues are a factor - I didn't think about it in the way you presented, but I think the fact that I became very hormonal and needy, especially around the time that work became more demanding for him. I think he, on some level, equates most women with his mother, and probably has some underlying fear that I would turn crazy eventually...


Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011