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[pauld2100]

Update,

It's been almost a month since that last encounter... I have not been tring to talk to her at all.. she has not initiated any contact, I had to contact her about our dog... or my dog, I have been gearing toward leaving and not giving her any attention and going out of my way to make sure we dont see each other... The reason I had to contact her was because she has had my dog at the house and she has been letting thing go that he needs grooming and some regular vet visits, so I text her just to ask about him... instead of text me back she calls me now and for the first time in months was asking me how I am doing... I was suprized to hear this but also dint return any concern about her, and she was also asking about my dog. I had taken him for 2 weeks so she also missed him... So I had him taken care of and had to drop him at home beause I still dont have a permanent place to live... This was the first time in over a month that she has seen me and was extra nice... She held me again and I was not really warm at all she is starting to act understanding about how things are, being very attentive also... It is creepy to say the least, I was a bit taken but didnt give much... She was also very thankful offered help with small things and I declined... She seems very worn out and sad ]... anyone have a take on this I know she has been thinking about me allot... I can see she is up to something with the extra friendly and engaging me with attention.. Advice anyone I am struggling with trusting her with anything, I know she is hurting and is starting to see her part in this as well...