I really don't know if it would be a good idea to use it.
I know it would NOT go over well with H. It would just make him mad. But reading your post reminded me that I made that comment to him early in our S, and I was quite serious at the time.
Yes, it's the no contact club, but I have to resign. Blew it last night. Waiting for the 2 x 4s on my thread.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man