I haven't posted to you before but I saw your posts on Cas's thread and you are a fellow UKer
I'm sorry to hear about all you have gone through. It is so hard when our h's seemingly 'switch off'. My H is a silent switcher offer which for me is the most frustrating.
Firstly I just wanted to ask what advice, or tack, your DB coach suggested you take? You are in LRT I take it. Have you gone dark? I never went fully dark but just dim. Ususally what do you and your h interact over and how often are you in contact?
Sorry for all the questions, just trying to get a better idea of your sitch.
