Wow - that's toxic. I can understand why you don't want to have anything to do with her. Are you going to call her back?
I wonder if your H has 'mother' issues that are contributing to what he is going through at the moment? It's interesting that he's left you at this time when you've become a 'mother'?
It doesn't really matter in terms of what you are going through but it sure is a red flashing light isn't it?
I've been reading along, and all things considered you are doing pretty well Ms DMK. It's a tough road to travel, just remember to put one foot in front of the other each day and don't forget to breath.
Take care. V
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.