ick. don't have any other words. IMHO, everyone has made him worse and worse. Everyone, even you (luckily you have mostly stopped- but why on earth kiss him!! silly girl) has enabled him to be this way, and I can see this OW is the worst one.
you know, I think the only thing I woulda said when he was comparing you to her would be, oh, and that's why your coming to me for sex?
is there anyway to take him to court again for the custody? I mean, gosh, this is just ridiculous. I feel so sorry for that other baby too, I mean, that poor baby has to live with him all the time, thankfully K has you most of her time, but he should have her as little as possible.
I would also go to your doctor and tell him about the hour long crying and see if he can get anything in writing for you, either to give to some courts, or to give to H so he'll quit doing it.
I'm glad that you were calm enough to not fight with him over it, cause you know that woulda turned ugly and who knows if he would take your advice.
I'm so sorry B, just pray and pray over your D every day.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."