I just realized - there is Another Woman in my W's life - the "friend" from hell.
And that my W is gradually moving away from her support and company little by little.
She's spending more and more time at other people's houses. Weekends etc. I'm going to do whatever I can to help this along.
The job must have made a huge difference - getting her out of "friends" home for the day.
It's only been 13 days since she started work but I'm sure she's getting back to normal.
Her confidence levels must be vastly improved.
I can't help but think that all of these things are big positives.
I'm going to leave a blank "Thank You" card for Nigel (our friend who gave W the job). No signature. No explanation. And buy him a drink - also no explanation. He's a big softy! He's also a guy to stand up for what is right.
I just wish she'd get to the stage of contacting me about US. Up until now nothing. Not even about money.
Not even sure she's still thinking about me as much as I constantly think about her.